Reclaim Sacred Sexuality
Awaken Divine Pleasure
Transform in Tantric Love
✦ Somatic Coaching ✦ Tantric Practices ✦ Parts Work Integration ✦
Is This Coaching for ME?
This sacred work is for you if you resonate with any of these experiences:
"I have trouble orgasming or have never orgasmed."
"I feel broken, hopeless, or like pleasure/surrender is out of reach."
"I've experienced sexual trauma or religious conditioning that blocks me from desire and pleasure."
"I'm unsure of my desires, needs, or boundaries."
"I feel unworthy of asking for what I want."
"I have low self-confidence in myself, my body, or my sexuality."
"I keep giving my power away to others."
"I have trouble accessing spiritual realms of sexuality—it feels purely physical."
"I feel disconnection between my heart and sacral energy. I'm addicted to porn or pleasure seeking."
"I keep cycling in toxic relationships or love patterns I can't seem to break free from."
"I'm terrified of opening my heart and being hurt."
"I struggle with intimacy and vulnerability."
If any of these resonate, you're in the right place.
This is your invitation to transform.
Sacred Sexuality Journeys
Sanctified
Somatic & Sacred Sexuality Coaching
1:1 Somatic Coaching
IFS (Internal Family Systems)/ Parts Work
Tantric Practices
Heal the split between spirit and sex.
Release shame. Reclaim your body as holy.
Pleasure becomes prayer. Desire becomes wisdom.
Come home to your wholeness.
What You'll Receive:
- ✦Release shame and heal the split between spirit and sex
- ✦Reclaim your body as sacred, safe, and pleasurable
- ✦Expand intimacy, pleasure, and orgasmic capacity
- ✦Feel at home in your desire, truth, and wholeness
Sex Goddess
Erotic Embodiment & Tantric Coaching
1:1 Somatic Coaching
IFS (Internal Family Systems)/ Parts Work
Tantric Pleasure Practices
Awaken your erotic power.
Expand orgasm, confidence, and magnetism.
Heal the past. Feel more. Want more. Receive more.
Become unapologetically turned on by your life.
What You'll Receive:
- ✦Awaken deep erotic power and orgasmic aliveness
- ✦Heal sexual wounds and reclaim pleasure without shame
- ✦Embody confidence, sensuality, and magnetic presence
- ✦Fall wildly in love with your body and desire
Eternal Flame
Couples Tantra & Sacred Union Coaching
1:1 Somatic Coaching
IFS (Internal Family Systems)/ Parts Work
Guided Couples Tantric Intimacy
Reignite passion and deepen devotion.
Feel safe, desired, and wildly alive together.
Expand pleasure, intimacy, and emotional truth.
Turn your relationship into a living temple of love.
What You'll Receive:
- ✦Deepen emotional safety, intimacy, and devotion
- ✦Reignite passion, polarity, and erotic connection
- ✦Expand pleasure and orgasm together through tantra
- ✦Create a vibrant, lasting, and sacred relationship
What Transformation is Possible
Experience profound transformation through sacred sexuality coaching.
Expanded Pleasure
- ✦Expanded Orgasms
- ✦Multi-Orgasmic
- ✦Energetic Orgasms
- ✦Liberation Of Desires
- ✦Sexual Satisfaction
Spiritual Awakening
- ✦Sex As Spiritual Practice
- ✦Erotic Enlightenment
- ✦Authentic Connection To Self + Divine
Trauma Healing
- ✦IFS Parts Work
- ✦Integration Of Shadows
- ✦Removing Conditioning & Blocks
- ✦Healing Through Somatic Release
Embodied Power
- ✦Safety In Body
- ✦Safety To Surrender
- ✦Glowing Self Confidence
- ✦Amplified Magnetism & Manifestation
- ✦Embodied Worthiness
Sacred Union
- ✦Deepened Intimacy With Self & Others
- ✦Sacred Intimacy
- ✦Aligning With Healthy Relationships
- ✦Balancing Inner Union
Energetic Mastery
- ✦Regain Full Vitality
- ✦Life Force Energy Unlocked
- ✦Mastery Over Breath
- ✦Amplified Energy System
About Elfina Stephany
Elfina Stephany is a sacred sexuality coach devoted to the journey of remembering erotic innocence, reclaiming pleasure as holy, and awakening the divine power that lives in your body. I guide women and couples to transform their relationship with love, sex, and intimacy through a unique alchemy of tantric wisdom, trauma-informed healing, and somatic embodiment. Together, we dissolve the layers of shame, fear, and conditioning that have dimmed your light so you can rise into the radiant truth of your sensual, sovereign self.
I know this path intimately. I grew up in a repressive Christian household, carrying the scars of sexual abuse and a cycle of unfulfilling, toxic relationships that left me disconnected from my body and my truth. My own healing became a sacred initiation—a reclamation of my sexuality as divine, my body as temple, and my pleasure as prayer. Today, I live and love in a deeply devoted, expansive partnership that continues to teach me what sacred union truly means. Through my work, I help others liberate themselves from the wounds of the past and awaken the profound ecstasy, freedom, and intimacy that are your birthright.
Credentials & Training
BA Psychology - University of Minnesota, 2014
VITA Love, Sex & Relationship Coaching Certification ~ Jan 2025 - Current
MA in Integrative Health & Wellness Coaching - Maryland University of Integrative Health, 2020
Co-Host of "Taboo Talks" Podcast - SISociety, 2022 - Current
Author of "Menstrual Magic" - A Guided Journal to Harness the Power of Your Cycle, 2023
Women's Orgasm Course - OMGYES, 2024
O Bliss Women's Pleasure Course - Layla Martin, 2024
Counselor at Treatment Center for Suicidal Adolescents - Minneapolis, MN, 2014
EFT Quantum Healing Aquatic Bodywork - Dolphin Dance, 2025
Currently Majoring in Tantric Sex, Transformative Relating & Women's Empowerment
Frequently Asked Questions
If you're feeling called to this work, you're ready. Whether you're seeking deeper pleasure, healing from past wounds, or wanting to transform your relationship with intimacy—your curiosity is the first step. This work meets you exactly where you are, honoring your unique journey and readiness.
Therapy typically focuses on healing past wounds and processing trauma, while coaching is future-focused on growth, transformation, and embodying your desires. As your coach, I guide you in taking inspired action, integrating practices, and stepping into the life and relationships you want to create. We work together as partners in your empowerment.
This sacred journey begins with you. As you reclaim your divine pleasure and embody your authentic sexuality, your partner often becomes naturally curious and more open. Many couples find that one person's transformation creates a beautiful ripple effect that awakens the other to their own sacred potential.
Absolutely. This is a trauma-informed, shame-free space where we honor your spiritual journey. We work to heal the wounds that organized religion may have inflicted on your relationship with pleasure, helping you reclaim sexuality as the sacred gift it truly is.
Sacred transformation unfolds at the pace of your soul. Many clients feel a profound shift in their relationship with pleasure within the first few sessions—a sense of coming home to their body. Deeper integration and lasting change develop over our time together, as we honor your unique healing timeline. It also depends on how much energy you put into each session, how open you are to the experience + how disciplined you are with your weekly practices in between sessions. The more you put in, the more you will receive.
This work integrates multiple powerful modalities—somatic practices, tantric rituals, IFS parts work, and energetic mastery—into a cohesive, personalized journey. It's not just about learning techniques; it's about deep embodiment, nervous system rewiring, and lasting transformation. You're held in a trauma-informed, sacred container where your whole self is welcome, and we move at the pace that honors your body's wisdom.
Yes, absolutely. This sacred work honors all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, queer, or anywhere on the spectrum, your authentic expression of love and pleasure is sacred and welcome here.